Are you still wondering about your life?
Where you are at this age; be it 16, 21, 30, or approaching 50+ years.
Maybe you're a mom or dad. Possibly not. No worries;
You are simply here to discover who you are in this lifetime. Your true purpose and what things you are to improve, correct or make amends with.
Be it people in your life, or your own pitfalls/shortcomings. (The vices we tend to battle)
I've struggled with anger, my own ego, among other little things like; my purpose.
Happiness and being content are closely related. If you're relatively happy right now, having no children at the ripe age of 37-40; then- no worries. You need not feel guilt over that. Not all, were meant to have children in this lifetime. Many are to have children or experience being a parent. Society does not dictate this or that. You do!
You are here to discover you. Live, learn, discard, delete, grow, and improve.
All the ways of the world around you are merely distractions. Kind of like an obstacle course; with many things to tempt you along the way. Take you off the path to discovery.
Your restraint, confidence, and self control should be what keeps you on the right path. Few are capable of maintaining this. It can be done!
Through the trials we go through: If you look at life, more as a test to "pass or fail", you will get through it all better. You'll learn, rather than complain. No one is entitled to anything but the air you breathe. All else is mere illusion. As you know, nothing is really "free". There is a price to pay for anything just given. Be it returning the good deed to another, or enslavement, being the worst part.
You decide, but do not worry your heart, over the things you have no control over. Just focus on what you do! ~Onward my friends.
Time to discover, time to change!
Lookatyourselfandawaken.